Date: February 01, 2008 at 15:53:02
From: Nikki
Age: 35
Subject: Re: Taking a Poll?
Well YEAH, it is a defninite turn on to know you are turning your partner on.
But by the same token, I would THINK it would be a turnoff for a guy to know he's doing something his partner doesn't like.
So there you go. But I from some of the responses on this board over time, I have learned something. Guys have a tendency...at least some of them do...not to care so much as you would think about what women want. For example, there have been plenty of inquiries here about anal sex. And I have gotten a strong impression that some men don't give a damn at all if it hurts their partners or if it's distasteful to them. These guys want it, and they are only concerned with talking their women into it.
Now, I'm not saying that about you. :) I think you make a valid point. But honestly, I can't relate too much to it. I would never in a million years want any sexual partner of mine to do something for my sake that he didn't enjoy. There's so much to enjoy together. I would just omit that act. I would feel creepy about getting him to do it if he didn't like it.
Now having said that, a facial isn't that horrible so I could tolerate it if my guy was just totally into it. But thank goodness he isn't.
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