Date: February 13, 2008 at 14:39:16
From: Hannah
Age: 32
Subject: Re: So, are you really a woman....

Yes, I am a woman, and actually...I find regular sex painful as well. I am very tense and have a hard time relaxing, so I wouldn't generalize the fact that I don't like anal sex to mean that no woman does.

Your "truth about anal sex" is the truth according to YOU. I stand by the fact that I've never heard of anyone being injured by anal sex, and I'm friends with gay men who practice this form of sex regularly, as well. And I know several women who do it. I'm sure, if a penis is roughly shoved into someone's rectum without lube or foreplay, then that isn't a pleasant experience. But it's the same way with having vaginal sex-if you're not ready and it's done roughly, that can cause damage too. I've heard a lot that it has to do with the kind of lubricant that is used.

And it's true that my best friend, A WOMAN, enjoys anal sex. And she told me it makes her orgasm more intense. So, you've never tried it, but you want to put your beliefs onto EVERYONE else. Years ago people thought cunninglingus and fellatio were dirty, unnatural practices that were degrading and should be outlawed. There are still people out there who feel as vehemently about that being wrong as you are vehemently against anal sex.

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