Date: April 08, 2008 at 23:00:59
From: Lola
Age: 27
Subject: talking in his sleep... and more.
This has only happened a couple times but I find it sort of disturbing...
lately my boyfriend has been very active in his sleep... a couple weeks
ago we had an argument, one of the points of discussion was his
increasing distance and what I felt was a lack of sex, he said he as
stressed and tired (reasonable and has improved since.) That night he
fell asleep before I did and in his sleep he squeezed me tightly against
him and kept telling me he loved me, he was very aggressive about it. I
told him he was ok and he sort of drifted back into calm sleep. Later he
talked in his sleep again and told me "you make my cock hard." I told
him about it in the morning. He thought it was sort of funny.
Last night it happened again, we hadn't argued prior, we had dinner,
we went to bed, when we first climbed into bed and we were both
awake he was listing all the ways he loved me... and then after he fell
asleep the aggressive sleep-talking came back, same as before,
squeezing me tightly and telling me how much he loved me. I told him
everything was ok and that I love him too and then he calmed. Later in
the night I woke to him grabbing my hand and placing it onto his
penis, over his underwear, then he rolled away to sleep on his side. At
this point my sleep was a little on edge. Later in the night he spoke
again saying "now, thats what I'm talking about."
So I gather he was having some erotic dreams, but I still found it kind
of disturbing. I told him about it in the morning and he didn't have any
memory of it. I told him it made me feel uncomfortable and he was
really distressed by it...
1) is this normal?
2) if not how can we curb this?
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