Date: April 09, 2008 at 08:11:45
From: Thomas
Age: 60
Subject: Re: talking in his sleep... and more.

Of coures it's normal.

Look, the male sex drive is like a chaotic cesspool. Men are bedeviled by all kinds of sex desires. If he said, "You make my cock hard, Brenda" (the name of some women other than you). *that* would be normal too. Men are driven by erections to want to have all kinds of sex. The civilized among us control it, and, for example, are polite in public, and also keep promises we make of being faithful. But that doesn't mean we don't think of all sorts of things. The fact that he thinks you make his cock hard in his sleep does not mean that he loves you, but it's not a bad thing either! He can't control his sleep and his dreams, and you should accept them. If you're both willing after talking about it in advance, you might even use such occasions to initiate something sexual with him. Most men like women who desire them at all times and in different ways.

Unless you have some issues of your own, the more you understand about most males' sex drive, the more normal you will feel your boyfriend is.

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