Date: April 09, 2008 at 23:49:05
From: jenn_cat
Age: 32
Subject: Re: Women who can't climax off sex alone!!
First off- I know I am not a guy- but my two cents= At least she is having an orgasm. I would like to see a stat on that(the amount of women who can't get there no matter what is going on). I have many of my girlfriends tell me they are deeply in love but can't get to that point with their boyfriends.
You can't force it. For women, it happens when it happens. Not to say they don't have control over that. But the women who haven't don't know how to tap into that part with you. I have tons of friends that want it to happen and it hasn't. You can't force it. Enjoy what you have.
For me, if this is any help, it's all about the allowing someone watch you lose control. This takes more than some seedy relationship. Need the trust, warmth, and all that comes along with that. Some women biologically won't ever get there. Not sure if that is because they refuse to go there or they biologically can't.
Either way, If you make her happy, what ever the means and she is definitely into reciprocating. it's kinda the same thing. two bodies together for that purpose.
If it's not a dealbreaker- then you sort it between the two of you. but it might take some honest talks about ummm yeah I like it there,,, oh that hurts, will you go back and do the one I liked. Males and females must realize we have completely different strategies-- woman should be picky bc we have to carry the children to term and no one else can do that- so we want to find "ALPHA" male. men want to find woman with a variety :) it sucks but the male libido could easily surpass the women on the earth --- ya' sick dogs!
If you found the right girl, you'll know it. And beyond that- work on communication and the noises she makes (in bed)....those are for you- to interpret. she will lead you.
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