Date: May 06, 2008 at 11:37:41
From: sunshine
Age: 23
Subject: anal sex serious ?
Ok I have been with the same guy almost a year now and due to some past mistakes I have made I am not a huge fan of sex mainly I hate it,and it upsets my boyfriend a lot but that is neither here nor there. WE have tried to spice it up a little for me it is the act of getting aroused that is the problem i dread it and bitch and whine and try to throw a quickie at him in turn he gets turned off and frustrated and rolls over because he says no would be easier to hear than "not again sigh whine" the connection is there so is the chemistry I just have these issues that are crazy I know but real nonethe less. Well when I am in the mood and I do get into it we get wild. The past few times we have tried anal. I use a condom b/c I read on here like 8 yrs ago that it can cause some problem and we start slow and let it loosen up and get juicy for lack of a better word the first time was kind of fast he says it was the first time he ever came with a girl anal, but last night we used a cock ring with a vibrator on it and it lasted a long time it was cool I enjoyed it but it was much harder longer (time wise) and the position was much deeper now I haven't had any bleeding it's a lil sore but it feels funny I don't know how to describe it.We also experimented a lil with my finger barely in his ass while I gave him a blowjob. I mainly want to know if anyone KNOWS if there is any danger if this becomes semi-regular (2-3 times a week) also I would appreciate any REAL information/feedback on the topic; opinions and such. i have a lot more stuff I would like to talk about but I think I'll read a few posts and hang out a lil while before I get that serious. I haven't used this site much since it became adamdrew instead of adamanddrew and I know people used to act immature but this site helped me or at least gave me a place to vent as an older teen about things I was curious about or going through sexually. I have lways tried to be mature and respectful of people and I would appreciate the same. TTFN
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