Date: January 04, 2010 at 19:59:15
From: Lana
Age: 38
Subject: Rejecting Someone
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I recently signed up for an internet dating site. I've had a few dates from it so far. Yesterday I had what should have been a great date. The man brought me flowers and paid for dinner. However, I just wasn't feeling a connection. Afterwards, he asked me out for next Saturday and I felt like I had to accept. However, I didn't feel attracted to him and I am now dreading next Saturday. All my friends say that part of the reason I'm not interested in him is I want a challenge and I'm attracted to men who have problems, etc. Now, I'm not denying that this might be the case, but the truth of the matter is, I'm not attracted to this man. So, I finally e-mailed him to tell him I felt he wasn't a match. Why do I feel like I'm doing the wrong thing? Why should I force myself to date a man I'm not attracted to if I'm not feeling it?
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