As usual, I agree with Thomas!
Talk to her. Listen and believe her words.
If she says that she isn't interested in a relationship as such, then she ISN'T! The real question is, does she EVER see herself in a full blown relatinship with you.
Look, in the relative scheme of things, you two are brand new. Three months of dating is just the beginning. I think she is well within reason not to want to define your relationship as more than just seeing each other right now. You two are just getting to know each other. There's plenty of time for things to blossom into a true meaningful relationship.
On the plus side, she likes you enough to have sex with you and she isn't dating anyone else.
Look, this relationship may not happen. But if I were you, I'd cool my jets a little. It's too soon for either of you to be thinking of settling down in the sense of thinking of marriage.
Now, if she says she NEVER foresees a real relationship with you, believe her. Run away!
If she says she is just enjoying dating you at the moment and time will tell if more develops, then good for her. Too many people fall "in love" long before they can honestly say they even know the other person for real.
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