Have you tried talking to her, telling her how much you love her, telling you how important your kids are, and how they need two parents, telling her you love her more than anything and want to marry her? Have you tried doing things that might show you how much you love her, things that she might like?
Does she have an idea who is going to raise your kids?
Does she want to be involved? If she cares about the kids, you might have a better chance of rekindling your love for each other. She needs to understand that kids are much better off being raised by two parents who are together and who love each other. If she doesn't even care about the kids, that's a bad sign, and a poor sign about her character too.
If you try all that, and she rebuffs you, try counseling. If she won't go, or it doesn't work, then there probably isn't a lot you can do. Talking to her parents might be a good idea, depending on what kind of people they are and what kind of relationship she has with them, but her parents can't make her love you, and if they try to influence things she might react negatively.
The most important thing to remember is that you can't control other people. Focus on what you can do. If showing her that you love her doesn't work, make the best life you can for yourself and your kids.
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